Thunder of Wade

So, with all the stuff moved in, it was time to unpack and get things set up.  I’ve got a couple of rooms I don’t really know what to do with, but the rest has now been designated.  Kitchen, dining room and living room are easy.  But I also got a kitchen annex that I’m not sure what to do with.   Basement with a full bathroom – and I’ve now got my weight bench set up there as well. Second floor has my bedroom, the library, and one of those unknown rooms.  Third floor – yes, a third floor – has the origami room, an unknown room, and the office – where I’m sitting now.  And it’s cold in here.  I’m a little worried about the heating bill, so I’m keeping the temp low and much of the house closed off.  Once I get that first bill, I’ll be able to judge it a little better.

I’ve cleared a ton of boxes – the library along was a massive undertaking – and the basement is actually sort of organized.

I also met the neighbors and introduced myself.  They are an older couple and seem nice – the guy came over while I was working on garage door and held the flashlight for me.   I’m hoping that we all stay on good terms – we share a driveway and I’m not really sure the protocol yet on that.

I’ve gotten my first piece of mail, taken out the trash, and done my first very minor repair.  No laundry yet – I took what I had with me when I visited my family for Christmas.

And…   I’m lonely.  Deeply so.  I had a room-mate all through college and then afterwards as well.  When my prior room-mate moved out – or rather, when he was forced to move out – I was dating someone and never felt alone.  Then I had my most recent room-mate and even when things went sour, it was still to have someone around.

This was the right decision for a whole of reasons and I’m getting used to the quiet, but it’s still weird.

I ended up closing on my house the evening of the 15th of December.  It came right down to the wire with getting the amount I needed to bring with me from the title agent.   Then I got slowed down at the bank due to a lady who had clearly not read the fine print when she opened her account and was very cross about a fee that had been charged.  The teller managed to work around her and get me the cashier’s check – though they ended up pulling from the wrong account and took my checking account very low.

The closing went as smoothly as a pile of of papers can be.  I swear, I think they could have measured it in inches.  I handed over the check, the realtor gave me a hug and a bottle of wine and I was suddenly a homeowner.

My folks, my sister and brother in law came up to see me that weekend and helped me move.  I had trouble actually getting possession – the other realtor wasn’t answering his phone and we ended up just going over to see how the former owners were doing.  They were just about done with two car loads to go and I got the keys and asked that they call me on my cell when they were finished.

Well, they never called and we ended up just going back over there. I got the doors opened and we got started on moving stuff in.  We ended up making several trips and there was a lot of ibuprofen dished out.  They headed back and I made another trip with my car that evening.

And I slept that night in my new place in my own bed.  Pretty cool.

I was supposed to close on my house today, but we are apparently delayed.   The one-time bonus all UA employees got back in 2009  – and consequently caused what appeared to be a “dip” from 2009 to 2010 in my income freaked out the underwriters even more than I’d thought.  In addition to the letter I had to write to explain this, they also wanted a written verification of employment.  And the University has a 5 day turn around on that.  I didn’t know they had made that request, otherwise, I would have trucked on over to HR and called in some favors.

So, that didn’t get back to the underwriters until yesterday morning and despite the “rush” the loan officer put on it, I knew things were not going to work out to close today.

That means that the sellers can’t close on their new place on schedule and I won’t get possession in time for my family to come up and help me move this weekend.  And I’m unlikely to be moved before Christmas.

Which kinda sucks, but it’s not the end of the world.    I’ll have time off after Christmas and my family may be able to help me then as well.

It’s just so dang frustrating that paperwork is getting in the way.  Never mind the stable job and great credit score – I can’t move forward because of some bureaucratic paperwork.

I’m hoping to hear back from the bank today and see where we’re at.

I’m working on a project that requires some very small folding.  So, as a break/practice, I did some more familiar fold on a very small scale.  And by very small, I mean 1 inch squares of paper.

Here’s the set  – three cranes, a rabbit, and a duck  – with a quarter for scale:

And because the duck didn’t show well in that shot, here he is all by himself:

Back in 2009, we got a one time bonus at work to compensate for having to pay more for our benefits. So, from 2009 to 2010, I actually made less money. Which has apparently confused my bank and I found out I have to produce a written statement explaining this to them. It’s yet another roadblock that has been shoved in front of me. It’s like they just really don’t want to give me a loan.

It’s frustrating. Every time I get done jumping through the hoops, there are suddenly more hoops. And some of those are on fire.

After this latest hitch, I found myself thinking, “If I knew then, what I know now, I wouldn’t be buying the house,”. And if I could have bailed out without making things so much worse, I would have just given up on the house. It’s been that frustrating. And all the fun has been sucked out of the process.

Insert head shaking here.

On my walk back to work after the dentist trip this morning, I stepped out into the crosswalk and a car came tearing around the corner. I wisely stepped backwards onto the sidewalk to get out of the way, but that wasn’t the end. Apparently, the driver didn’t realize that the car behind him was a police car. And that he didn’t yield to a pedestrian – me. The lights and siren went on and I think a ticket was issued. I didn’t stay around to gloat, but it was nice see a win for those on foot.

I spent thanksgiving day by myself and it was strangely lonely time. I’m usually okay by myself, but it was weird. Last weekend, after I got my car fixed – more on that later – I headed down to see my folks again and though we didn’t do much, i still had a nice time. And between Dad and I, we got Mom’s mp3 player set up.

This week has been really stressful with work. I’ve been working late to try and stay on track to no avail. I’m getting a lot done, but I’m not enjoying it like I do when I’m really productive.

Last evening I went to a funeral for my boss’s mom. I didn’t know her, but I thought I should go for he and his family. I think he appreciated it since most of the people at the service were friends of his mom. So, I stood up at the right parts and didn’t get struck by lightning – which always is a possibility with me. And I made a very small (1 inch square) crane for his daughter.

This morning I went to the dentist and it was horrible. It felt like they had a cutlery set, a weed wackier, a deep bore drill, and pitchfork in my mouth at once – and that was just during the cleaning. Brutal. Mt whole head ached for a couple hours after that.

This, I think, was the longest three day week on record. Crazy busy at work trying to launch a huge site as well as trying to keep up with all the stuff that needed done before the long weekend. I’m planning on doing a little work this afternoon just to try to get ahead.

I’m holding down the fort at home today since we already had a family thanksgiving last weekend. Also, my car is making a weird noise and I don’t quite trust it for the trip. I have an appointment to get it looked at tomorrow and will hopefully be able to make the drive then to spend the weekend with my folks.

On Tuesday, I filled out a ton of paperwork for my mortgage and got that all turned in yesterday. Hoping I’m still on track to close on the 15th.

So, a little NCIS this morning, then fire up the computer and get to work.

I went and visited my family this weekend for an early Thanksgiving.  My niece was a lot of fun – she’s constantly on the move and learning all the time.  And she’s getting more words  – and starting to put them together into sentences.    We chased each other around the house and played with my iPad  – and of course read plenty of books.

We didn’t do too much during our visit, but we still had fun.  Mostly just telling stories and eating way too much.  I did get a little exercise in the form of helping get a load of firewood.  Oh, and I cooked too.  Well, I put the turkey in the oven at the specified time and temp while the rest of the crew was at church – I don’t think that really counts, but I stuck to it.

I headed back home on Sunday evening – in the dark and the rain.   I had no trouble getting up to Columbus – but as I approached the all important exit to 71, I found it was closed.  Closed.  Who would close 71?    I swore a bit, railed my fist against the inhumanity, then saw that there was an overturned truck blocking the entire exit.  Then I felt a little bad.

And then I realized I didn’t know where I was going.  I don’t know Columbus hardly at all and there weren’t many landmarks I could use in the dark.  I kept going north, hoping for the best and getting more and more anxious.  Finally, I gave up and called my dad.  He reassured me that I was on the right track and sure enough, the signs for 270 to Cleveland (71) soon appeared.   I stopped and got fuel not long after I got onto 71 – just in case – and made my way home without any further incident.

Looks like I need to get the outlet in my car fixed and get myself a GPS.  Just in case.

Crazy busy at work this week, but I’ve gotten a lot done.  Today especially was intense.  We launched 3 sites this morning and fixed a ton of links.   I also had a meeting and pretty much saved the day.   There is work being done on a campus wide survey and I brought up the need for some kind of incentive in return from some essential data.   I also solved some technical issues, and reminded them the importance of protecting the privacy of the data.  It was epic and I would have given myself a high-five if it wasn’t such a silly idea.

A quick lunch then off to another meeting.  This was a collaborative day-saving, but it still counts.

I also got a really nice note from the home sellers.   They are throwing in a desk in the office and a foosball table!   Sort of a nice counter-point to the ping pong table in my sister’s basement.  🙂    They offered to leave the piano as well, but I think that would just be something to dust.

I’ve been working with bank to keep things on track.  Sort of cranky about their process, but not a dang thing I can do about it.

Think it’s time for me to log off and hit the rack.  Got a long day ahead of me tomorrow and then a long drive tomorrow night to my sister’s place.  My Mom wants to have thanksgiving a week early so we can – mostly – all be together.  My Dad may end up having to work on Saturday, so I’m not sure how that’s going to work out.  Being that I’m the least sentimenal person on the planet, I’d be fine with Bob Evan’s or a deli turkey sandwich, but I suspect I would be over-ruled on that.