{"id":1964,"date":"2016-02-29T02:03:12","date_gmt":"2016-02-29T02:03:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/?p=1964"},"modified":"2016-02-29T02:03:12","modified_gmt":"2016-02-29T02:03:12","slug":"taxes-gravel-and-resentment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/2016\/02\/29\/taxes-gravel-and-resentment\/","title":{"rendered":"taxes, gravel, and resentment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I got my taxes done yesterday afternoon. Mine aren&#8217;t really that complicated &#8211; relatively speaking &#8211; but I just hate doing them so much I would much rather pay someone to do them and save me the stress. Last time I tried on my own, I ran out of swear words and ended up with some stupid and unsatisfying combinations that didn&#8217;t make me feel better.<\/p>\n<p>So, Donna and I were going through my taxes. Donna is an older woman who sounds like she&#8217;s got about 8 pounds of gravel in her throat.<\/p>\n<p>I &#8220;think&#8221; she was working on my taxes &#8211; the computer screen seemed to suggest that. And I &#8220;think&#8221; she cracked a couple of jokes. She mumbled quite a bit &#8211; might have been talking to me, maybe the computer. And her voice was course enough that &#8211; were Animal from the Muppets to hear her &#8211; he would have suggested, &#8220;COUGH! DROP!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Finished things up in short order and I was on my way. One side effect of the tax prep was looking at my medical bills from last year &#8211; since sometimes that can be taken as a deduction. Mine wasn&#8217;t quite enough for that &#8211; but the grand total did take me aback.<\/p>\n<p>$2,965.00<\/p>\n<p>All because of a 1\/10 of a second as I slipped on the ice.<\/p>\n<p>It could have been a lot worse if I didn&#8217;t have insurance. And it wasn&#8217;t all at once, fortunately.<\/p>\n<p>But, still.<\/p>\n<p>I was walking from the parking deck to my office by the most direct route possible and it wasn&#8217;t covered by worker&#8217;s comp because the sidewalk was technically owned by the city &#8211; though, I found out later that the university usually plowed it. Just not on that morning.<\/p>\n<p>I wasn&#8217;t angry that I fell. But I was angry that the employer who had been given so much of my time and loyalty over the years was so quick to blame someone else. I could have fought it, I guess, but it seems like a bad idea to sue your employer if you want to keep working there.<\/p>\n<p>And I healed and recovered and got over the injury and being angry.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m a little angry again now that I&#8217;m looking at that grand total &#8211; and I&#8217;ll get over that too.<\/p>\n<p>I met some great doctors and my physical therapist was really good. My friends and family were amazing and even though my arm will never be the same I got a good story out of it. And I&#8217;m part cyborg &#8211; so, that&#8217;s cool.<\/p>\n<p>But, still.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how many silver linings you find on clouds, they are still clouds.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I got my taxes done yesterday afternoon. Mine aren&#8217;t really that complicated &#8211; relatively speaking &#8211; but I just hate doing them so much I would much rather pay someone to do them and save me the stress. Last time I tried on my own, I ran out of swear words and ended up with [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_bluesky_dont_syndicate":"","_bluesky_syndication_accounts":"","_bluesky_syndication_text":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1964","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1964","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1964"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1964\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1965,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1964\/revisions\/1965"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1964"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1964"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1964"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}