{"id":1671,"date":"2014-08-12T12:44:54","date_gmt":"2014-08-12T12:44:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/?p=1671"},"modified":"2014-08-12T12:44:54","modified_gmt":"2014-08-12T12:44:54","slug":"the-song-of-my-people-terrible-loss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/2014\/08\/12\/the-song-of-my-people-terrible-loss\/","title":{"rendered":"the song of my people, terrible, loss"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I went to visit my family for my youngest niece&#8217;s birthday. She had just turned two and I struggled with what to get her. Shopping for a 2 year old girl is not exactly my wheelhouse.<\/p>\n<p>With a little guidance from my sister, I found a little tikes pink airplane. I was irritated by the pink &#8211; do all toys for girls have to have pink? &#8211; but the female pilot made it a little better.<\/p>\n<p>The best part was the song it played.<\/p>\n<p>Every time the wheels rolled.<\/p>\n<p>Every.<\/p>\n<p>Time.<\/p>\n<p>By the end of the evening, all the adults had the song memorized. Several of them did a little dance when it came on.<\/p>\n<p>I recorded it on my phone and may use it as a ring-tone.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>The two year old is cute, smart, and funny. But her wrath is a terrible thing. On Saturday evening she got tired and then got upset when it was time to put away the stickers. And by &#8220;upset&#8221;, I mean she totally lost her shit. Kind of stunned at this, I commented to my brother-in-law that this was pretty intense. With a knowing and tired shake of his head, he sadly commented that &#8220;no, it wasn&#8217;t&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>We did have a lot of fun and she&#8217;s pretty fond of her &#8220;un-til&#8221;, but you do not want to get on her bad side.<\/p>\n<p>Two years old and already ruling the world. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>One of my tasks at work is to answer or route email that comes into the &#8220;webmaster&#8221; email account. In among the &#8220;How do I contact admissions?&#8221; and &#8220;Where is the student union?&#8221;, I got a terribly sad email. It was from a mother who&#8217;s daughter had passed away a few weeks ago and wanted her daughter&#8217;s name taken off our lists &#8211; the notifications were a reminder of what the daughter wouldn&#8217;t have.<\/p>\n<p>It pretty much broke my heart.<\/p>\n<p>I forwarded this to the right people and they are going to get the notices halted and will reach out to the family.<\/p>\n<p>Today, the country is mourning the loss of a celebrity. But I&#8217;m still thinking about that college student who didn&#8217;t get to start classes this fall. And the mom who mourns when she gets another overly enthusiastic &#8220;Welcome to Fall Semester&#8221; letter.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t know this family. I didn&#8217;t have a connection other than getting and forwarding that message. But it still hit me. I guess that&#8217;s why I&#8217;m here &#8211; trying to help our students become successful in the world.<\/p>\n<p>And quietly feeling the loss of those that don&#8217;t get the chance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I went to visit my family for my youngest niece&#8217;s birthday. She had just turned two and I struggled with what to get her. Shopping for a 2 year old girl is not exactly my wheelhouse. With a little guidance from my sister, I found a little tikes pink airplane. 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