{"id":124,"date":"2005-06-03T11:54:00","date_gmt":"2005-06-03T11:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/2005\/06\/03\/two-phrases\/"},"modified":"2005-06-03T11:54:00","modified_gmt":"2005-06-03T11:54:00","slug":"two-phrases","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/2005\/06\/03\/two-phrases\/","title":{"rendered":"two phrases"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Heard a song on the radio last evening &#8211; really liked the lyrics, but the station didn&#8217;t identify what the song was. Fortunately, one line of the song stuck in my head and from that I was able to do a search this morning and locate the song:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Breathe (2 AM)&#8221; &#8211; ANNA NALICK<\/p>\n<p>The line that stuck in my head was:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And life&#8217;s like an hourglass, glued to the table.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Struck me as deeply profound &#8211; and yet a very simple and clear image. I don&#8217;t normally buy CD&#8217;s on the basis of one song, but I might break my rule for this one.<\/p>\n<p>On the drive work this morning I went past a church with a sign out front. Normally, this has some kind of pseudo-meaningful phrase on it that is quickly absorbed and ignored. This time it said, &#8220;The truth doesn&#8217;t hurt, unless it should.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>What in the heck does that mean? Let&#8217;s analyze some examples:<\/p>\n<p>1. My shoes are black and green &#8211; Or &#8211; I&#8217;m wearing pants today.<\/p>\n<p>Both of those are true and not painful in the least. In fact, I&#8217;m sure a few people around here are relieved at the second one.<\/p>\n<p>2. I could stand to lose a little weight.<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, that&#8217;s true too. I think I&#8217;d be mildly cranky if someone walked up to me on the street and said that to me, but I wouldn&#8217;t be emotionally scarred about it.<\/p>\n<p>3. I&#8217;m slowly going bald.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s true too, and while I&#8217;ll just shave my head when it gets bad &#8211; some people would be horribly offended if someone said that to them. It might be true, but pointing out someone&#8217;s flaws without trying to help them overcome them is just cruel. A few episodes of the Surreal Life with Da Brat are good examples of using a perceived truth to gain attention and just be cruel.<\/p>\n<p>Did no one listen to Elvis? Hello? &#8220;Don&#8217;t be cruel&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I still don&#8217;t understand what they were trying to say in that sign.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, time to get back to work&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img width='1' height='1' src='https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/7938355-111780084226914802?l=approximatelyequalto.blogspot.com' alt='' \/><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Heard a song on the radio last evening &#8211; really liked the lyrics, but the station didn&#8217;t identify what the song was. Fortunately, one line of the song stuck in my head and from that I was able to do a search this morning and locate the song: &#8220;Breathe (2 AM)&#8221; &#8211; ANNA NALICK The [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_bluesky_dont_syndicate":"","_bluesky_syndication_accounts":"","_bluesky_syndication_text":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-124","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=124"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=124"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=124"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thunderofwade.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=124"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}